If you have a friend that is battling infertility, I’m here to encourage you to reach out. She may seem to be holding it all together and doing okay, but more than likely, she is everything but okay.  She is hurting…and I mean deeply, deeply hurting.  I believe that couples everywhere are suffering in silence, as we were.  Sometimes, it’s uncomfortable to ask them how they are doing.  You don’t want to seem intrusive or nosy.  But there are ways to show that you care without being either of those things.  Most importantly, there are ways to say, “I see you.  I love you.  I’m sorry for your pain.” Just…